Monthly Archives: December 2013

The power of words

Words can be incredibly powerful. Martin Luther King had a dream for racial equality. Mahatma Gandhi preached the strength of non-violence to a nation ruled by others. Winston Churchill inspired people to never surrender. The words of Socrates, about the importance of examining your life, are still alive and potent more than 2500 years after his death.

Words have made nations rise and fall. Words can change the world. You just need to find the magic combination—the truth—that unlocks your heart, creates belief and inspires your actions. That’s why I keep doing this. If I can find the right words to inspire and motivate, to free my potential and overcome difficulties, I can change anything in my life.

Some of the words that have power are very small words. Simple words. Yes. Yet. Now. Can I have a better diet even though I’m addicted to all the wrong things? YES. When should I start? NOW. I’ve been really trying but I haven’t succeeded. YET.

Saying yes is a gesture of faith. Faith in yourself. The knowledge that you are worthy even if you don’t feel that way. And it’s okay if you’re not there yet, as long as you keep going. The magic is in doing something about it, no matter how little, and doing it now. So can I do this? Yes I can. And I can start now. Even if I don’t know everything I need to know. Yet.

What we really need

I was thinking the other day about Christmas and gifts … and how our needs get less as we get older.

Then I realised that’s not precisely true. Right through life, we always have the same needs. We need air, water, food, shelter. To have a good life we also need sunshine, warmth, a bit of comfort and activities that interest us and expand our horizons.

The rest, as much as we love it, pretty much falls into the ‘wants’ category. Even chocolate. Sigh.

Browse the pantry, not the supermarket aisles

When I’m trying to eat healthier food, the worst thing I can do in a supermarket is to browse the aisles.

My solution for this is to stockpile certain foods so I can concentrate my weekly shopping on fruit and vegetables, whole milk and perhaps meat. For example, I don’t buy cheese and butter every week. I prefer to buy enough for a month or two. Butter freezes well, although to freeze cheese I find it’s best to grate first then lay out in trays to freeze before bagging up. (Cheese that has been frozen in blocks generally crumbles when it’s cut. If I grate it and bag it without laying out  it will generally clump into one virtually unuseable mass). Mostly I just keep my cheese in the fridge. I buy 1kg blocks and when I open each pack I immediately divide into three and wrap with clingwrap. I never lose a skerrick of cheese to mould that way. I also package meat into meal size servings before freezing and put bread and sometimes milk in the freezer. There’s absolutely no waste doing it this way.

Eggs come from a friend who has happy chooks that wander around outside all day scratching and pecking at whatever their hearts desire, so no need to buy the supermarket variety.

Breakfast supplies for the muesli eater in the house are a simple case of buying oats, processed bran and sultanas and combining them into a 9 litre lidded container. No need to go down the breakfast aisle again until supplies run low.

The pantry always has a stash of cans—tomatoes, chickpeas, butter beans, kidney beans, beetroot, mushrooms, pineapple. I’m a fan of single ingredient cans because it gives me more control over what I’m eating. If I want soup or stew, it’s easy enough to make with supplies on hand. Living up to this one idea of buying single ingredients makes my shopping life heaps easier, because I don’t feel the need to try every new incarnation of canned or packet meals that’s out there. In fact, it means a couple more aisles I don’t have to go down (or at least only for my occasional foray to stock up on single-ingredient items that may be in those aisles).

I keep a reasonable supply of herbs and spices, onion and garlic powder, liquid and powdered stock, pasta, rice, flour (plain wholemeal, normal flour and spelt flour), salt, yeast (it lasts for years kept in the fridge), olive oil, vinegar and naughty flavourings like Gravox, soy sauce, sugar and tomato sauce. It means I can easily create beautifully flavoured meals without resorting to a myriad of packets. I’m constantly surprised at how many packets of flavourings or ready-made dishes there are in supermarkets these days. Don’t people make simple things from scratch any more? I truly can’t believe white sauce, sweet and sour sauce, flavoured rice et cetera need to come out of a packet.

I do the same with the less-than-optimal food we eat. A big plastic container holds packets of biscuits so I don’t have to go down that aisle too often. I also find that when I am simply replenishing supplies rather than browsing, I buy the same kinds of biscuits each time. It saves being tempted by all those  chocolate-covered, caramel-infused packets of sin. The same thing works in the confectionery section. As long as I have some chocolate and maybe some peppermints or lollipops at home, it’s okay to ignore the rows and rows of sweet treats. Not buying this kind of food every week gives me a break from looking at huge displays of it and I think, will eventually free me from its clutches. Also, when I choose just one or two items (one kind of sweet biscuit and one style of cracker) and stick to my choices, I don’t have the feeling that I am missing out. I am simply choosing differently. The trick is to make these choices at home on a day when determination and passion are high. The second trick is to shop quickly, using a list and trying not to deviate too much.

This whole procedure of bulk shopping waxes and wanes a bit, but I find that when I do take the time to do this for non-perishables and for all our personal items, my regular shopping trips are even quicker and more disciplined. Overall, it means the whole household eats healthier food.